Questions people ask before their first evening.

A curated evening for people who'd rather meet in a room than message for weeks. You join, we put together a guest list, and you turn up to a small gathering in a place we chose.

You tell us who you are. When a room fits you, we invite you. You arrive alone, the evening has a shape to it, and we handle everything before the first guest walks in.

No. Nobody rotates on a timer and nothing gets scored. It's an evening with a small group of people who were put in the same room deliberately.

You put yourself on the list with your city and email. Then you wait, honestly, while we look at who fits which room. Not everyone gets asked at the same time, and that's on purpose.

Enough for us to understand who you are and who you'd get along with, not your whole life story. A few honest answers go further than a long bio.

Nobody browses it. It's used to decide who belongs in the same room, not shown around beforehand.

People who are actually open to meeting someone, and good company in a room of strangers. Age, background and how you date are less interesting to us than that.

We read what you've told us and build a guest list we think will hold a conversation. During the evening, meeting someone again is mutual, it takes both people choosing it, not one person picking.

You meet everyone in the room. What happens after that is between the two of you.

You stay on the list and we try again for the next room. Nothing's charged, and it isn't a verdict on you, it's a question of who else is free that night.

Conversation, mostly. The evening has a shape to it, so you're not stuck deciding who to talk to first, and the last stretch is just yours.

A small group, size varies evening to evening. No host running the room, your evening is with the group and venue staff only. Each invitation states the age range for that group.

A few hours, roughly what a good dinner out takes. We give you a start time, not a countdown.

Leave whenever you want, no explanation needed, and no effect on future invitations. If something happened, tell us after, we don't need it in the moment.

Once you're invited into a room and you've accepted. Nothing is charged while you're on the list.

The evening itself, the room and the work of putting it together. Whatever you eat or drink there you pay the venue directly, the same as any night out.

Tell us as early as you can so someone else can take the seat. Late notice because something's come up is human, tell us anyway and we'll sort it out.

Amsterdam, for now. Other cities are next.

Yes. Leave your city and your email, and we'll let you know when we're close. Cities open when enough of the right people are asking for them.