Your comfort comes first.
An evening with strangers only works if leaving one is easy.
01
The room
Every evening happens in a public venue.
I
A venue we know
Never a private home or unknown address.
II
Nobody arrives unreviewed
Profile checks happen before an invitation goes out.
III
Contact stays yours
We never share your personal contact details. Two yeses hold a second conversation; anything past that is a decision you make yourself.
If someone from an evening contacts you elsewhere without your consent, that is still ours to handle. Write to us.
02
Leaving
Leave at any point. No explanation, no penalty.
Leaving early won't affect your account or future invitations. You never need to give us a reason.
On the night
Tell a venue staff member if you'd like company to the door or a cab called. Or just go.
Afterwards
You can report or block whenever you're ready, days later included.
03
Reporting
You don't need proof to report a concern.
Tell us what happened. Evidence helps when you have it, it isn't required. Reports are reviewed by a person and kept confidential where possible.
From a profile
Anyone you've shared a room with.
After an evening
Still there after the evening closes.
By email
04
Badges
Each badge tells you exactly what was checked.
Photo matched
A selfie check indicated this person resembles their profile photo.
Age checked
Sufficient evidence was provided that they meet the minimum age.
Profile reviewed
Review found the profile compliant at the time it was checked.
A badge confirms the check shown. It doesn't guarantee a person's behaviour or intentions.
05
Data
What we keep, why, and for how long.
Putting the right people in a room means holding answers that are more revealing than a usual profile. We treat them that way.
Profile answers
Used to build rooms. Deleted after your account closes.
Verification images
Deleted as soon as the check and fraud window are complete.
Safety reports
Kept only as long as needed for safety and legal reasons.
If something feels wrong, leave. Then tell us, whenever you're ready.
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